Ouch! This damn washbasin! Always hits me at the weirdo
peeing hours. It’s about 3:30AM in Melbourne. And here I am fully awake. No
folks, it's not any jet lag. It's a bun, a spiced up bun, in my oven, a really
hot oven!
So while Mr. KUNE (KUnal + NEha) is in the process of making
and baking, his mama sits awake at midnight tired of the peeing sessions; and his
dad is busy fuming off his mama further by his non-stop snores and spinning-in-bed
chores. Poor mama! I know!
With an absent-minded awareness, a dull face, patchy skin,
drowsy eyes and a body which I find hard to recognize, I feel, this entire
odyssey of pregnancy revolves pretty much around the letter 'P' - You get a
'Pea' in the 'Pod' as a result of some
'Pleasurable' moments. Your 'Prenatal' phase starts and then you 'Puke' and
'Puke' until you have been ‘Pumped off’ of your last bits of energy left. Your good night sleep goes for a toss while
you 'Pee' and 'Pee' all throughout the night. Thanks to the 'Pressure' on the
'Pelvic' muscles which make it difficult for the body to even turn around while
in bed in later months. This is followed by the most awaited phase of 'Pain'
and 'Push', I mean the ‘Phobiatic’ phase. And voila, here appears the handsome
'Pie'! Of course with a ‘Pack’ of ‘Pride’ and ‘Postpartum’ chores.
Oh my boy, my dude! Well, well there are still a few days to
having you in my laps. At times the thought of seeing you and cuddling you
wipes off my mind of all phobias. At other times, my phobic stimulus just seems
to take over. May be its my preggo hormones playing wreck with my emotions, or
it’s my worn and torn body at this stage doubting its capabilities once
recovered, or it’s my dependency on maids in this maid free land, whatever it
is. Trust me kid, it’s easier to be an obedient daughter or a daughter-in-law,
a loving wife, or a supporting sister than to be a functional mother. However
with a single kick of yours, my life seems to get a kick. With that magical wave
on my tummy, you make me smile and jump with joy. With that beautiful shape of
yours emerging in my belly, you make me feel restless about seeing you, about introducing
you to this world. With an ultra-sound shot seeing you scratching your head, you make me feel you, you make me feel like a mother, you make me
feel like the most energetic creature around who can do anything, just about
anything for this cute Kiddiwink.
My Little Rug Rat! I mean Your Royal Highness! You demanded your
mere diagnosis to be done not at home, but at a grandiose Hotel. It’s the night
when our Hyderabad house was sprayed with pesticides and we had to shift to a hotel
at 2AM midnight because of the pesticides putting unacceptable strain on my smelling
hormones, marking a sharp decline in my environmental tolerance. Anyways the following morning, sensing your
arrival, I decided to test your presence and voila – you had already popped in! We are and will always remain honoured with your gracious
landing.
Thanks to my motherly instinct which tells me that you are
going to be a hard nut to crack. Your
Highness! You either seem to be arriving with royal endeavours or you seem to
be on a pursuit to bring your spoiled, kinky, irresponsible, and sloppy freaks i.e.
your parents-to-be on track.
Your immediate next course of action was to ensure
that your mommy was used to and comfortable with all the tricks of the trade
cooking, and hence to ensure exclusive authentic mom-made savory bites for
yourself in future. So you sparked off some fiery hormones in me which made me
fire my cook, who had been serving us for 4 years. All at once it was time for self-cooking.
I still don’t know if it was the actual fault of the cook, or it was these preggo hormones caused by of course you, My serene
Highness.
Your Majesty! You deserve and command full time
attention and care. So you made my days, especially mornings nauseatic enough
to not being able to work from office. The day I woke up thinking I might just
turn up in office soon, that day was sure to bring me a good number of pukes. With
each puke, I heard your voice - “Enough of work mama! Stay at home with me, I
Love You. You better love me too”. I was terrified even to take the name of ‘office’
in the morning. For it took me a few hard mornings to recognize that few words
don’t seem to go well with you.
That was just the beginning. Very soon, I had to put down my
papers because this ‘P’ factor brought with it another surprise, the most
awaited ‘PR’ for Australia. As there’s an expiry date to activating PR visa, we realized there was no other time to visit there than then. So my Happy Little Vegemite
wanted to be born an Aussie. May be that’s why this visa thing coincided with
my conception. Your Highness made us leave our home, our families, our jobs and
our country. So soon after, KUNES, expecting, jobless, homeless, clueless, just
got up, packed up and arrived in Australia. What followed next was pure gamble.
Once a woman is in the club, she should not plan a shift. Though we shifted
not once or twice but thrice before we could call some place home. Every time I
wondered whether we were being railed or derailed, I felt the ever mine boy inside my tummy, boiling his own courage and pouring some
to me as well. In the middle of an ocean of countless sensitive circumstances, a
single sign of clean progress would make me weave new hopes about our years to come.
And well! Seems the gamble played off well. Things started to fall in place. Yet..
Ninth month and here I sit, staring at our yet to open luggage which has just arrived
from India a week back. Well, a mother’s
work is never done.
And my dear brave Littlie! All this while, your cooperation, butterflies
you caused in my stomach, your ever growing martial arts (kicks, flutters, what
not), your cute little face I see in my dreams and the excitement you bring
with your anticipated arrival have kept the fire burning, and the aspirations
elevated. Lucky are we to have you and the surprises galore you bring, which are
already spicing up and energizing our lives. After having traversed through many a shades
of the sky, and with a beautiful rainbow just around the corner, you are simply
awaited and anticipated with lots and lots of love, wishes and prayers, and
ouch! A little bit of labor-phobia!
From a flat belly to a belly full of paws and claws, from fifty three kaygees to sixty nine kaygees, from Me-as-Boss and Maid-as-Maid to MyBaby-as-Boss and Me-as-Maid, from mental tiredness to
physical tiredness, from girly whirly shopping of all types to Toys & Nappies & Wipes,
from time-to-kill to a full-time-drill, from immaturity to a little bit of
maturity, from a woman to a mother, the way I see it, it's been a journey
from glamor to glory.
